Ahhhh...lilacs.
Wysteria.
Spring.
After the longest, most beautiful, snow-kissed, glistening winter I'd ever experienced, Spring walked in with the grace of a 1920s Hollywood starlet.
Subtle but definitely noticeable.
Noticed.
Sweet.
Fresh.
Next to me in this rugged cafe near the corner of Coxe and Patton in Asheville, two 20-somethings contemplate geometry...non-Euclidean geometry...and I swear I am in the coffee shop on campus at St. John's college....
That spring I wandered farther and farther from campus, up and down muddy roads that dead-ended at streams and homes built by Frank Lloyd Wright or Juan c de Baca....
There was nothing familiar about the land but it called me deeper and deeper into itself, and I found respite there. Serving as cushion-y juxtaposition to the rugged land was the sweet scent of the air. Like the Sirens luring Odysseus, the lilac-scented air compelled me forward.
Scent being the most primal of our senses etches memory like a surgeon with a scalpal. I fell under the spell and hand of divine olfactory exactitude...what the hell does that mean?
It means this: everything else fell away. I followed my nose....and in this way, I learned about that place. And yes, this is the second way I fell in love with New Mexico. I fell in love with her scent. And I will never forget it. Thank god.
After living in Santa Fe for those decades that opened me to the power of scent, I now swear I was a bumble bee in a former life.
So here's to having been a bumble bee in yesterday's life.
The scents here are more subtle. I haven't found the ones that bowl me over yet. Right now, it is still the blue haze of the Blue Ridge at sundown that has me mesmerized. Layers of mountain peaks each a paler blue than the one in front of it look like an air-brushed movie back-drop. I can't believe it really. They are just as they are named....And I thank the people that walked before me and named the land so appropriately so that I can always know just where I am....Just like the Sangres...the dried-blood-red mountains of the lower Rockies...I always knew where I was.
It's nice to keep it that simple when life has me chasing my tail in many ways with work, errands, and sports teams; I can stop, and look, and know just where I am.
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
Saturday, August 27, 2011
To New Mexico with Love - Part V
Pinch me because I am certain I am dreaming.
While the rest of the country feels the pinch of recession, earthquakes, fires and hurricanes, nestled among the trees at a 3,000 ft plus altitude, the restaurants are teaming with people, the breweries are over-flowing, the wine bars are packed, the champagne bar has a line out the door, the chocolate houses have lines longer than the one champagne bar, the book stores are even packed this evening, and the several town squares have live music happening right now, this very minute, and they too are filled with people dancing, sitting, singing, talking, sleeping, eating, enjoying, and living life.
Pinch me because I know I am dreaming.
Walking up the street in evening attire and computer slung at my side, several people complimented me, men and women. Complimented me. I almost fell down. After living 20 of the past 25 years in Santa Fe, NM where compliments are rationed like food in a war-riddled country had me believing that I didn't know how to dress or better yet, simply was invisible.
Not here. Several times a day people tell me how happy I look, how well I am dressed, how pretty my necklace is, whatever...compliments. They are refreshing. And no, no one is hitting on me. These people are nice. I listen. I watch. And everyone is treating each other this way. Not just me. It is a generosity of spirit that reaches beyond clicks, cliches and pick-up lines.
Welcome to the South.
The other day at Target, I left the store with my cart piled high with things to help me better organize all the stuff in our 600 sq ft nest. Two large boxes holding large metal shelves teetered on the bottom of the cart.
As I loaded one bag after another, a gentleman approached and offered to help. I told him no, that I would be fine...certain he was...um...I don't know...lying? Anyway, thank god he insisted. Wedding band on his hand, he lifted the two large boxes into the back of my car.
"Thank you," I said. "Really. That was very kind and helpful."
"You are welcome," he replied. Simply. Politely, and walked back to his car.
No agenda. No attitude. And he didn't even ask for money.
I was stunned. In the decades I lived in the southwest, I can not tell you how many times I struggled with bags and boxes three-times my size in parking lots, in stores, and never had anyone offer to help. Even while holding my infant son, men and women walk past, opening doors for themselves and allowing them to shut in my face. After having a child, I see how this continues to happen, and have made it a point to extend a hand to moms and dads whose only arms are occupied with carrying children or diaper bags.
That same day when I got home from Target, city sewer workers sat outside my house on a 5-minute break from fixing a sewer line next door. I opened up the back hatch, and began unloading bags. Wilson had one and I had one. As we turned to go to the door, a voice called, "Would you like some help?"
This time I learned: this is the south. These men are serious.
"Yes, that would be very helpful. Just these two boxes would be fine."
All six men came over and unloaded my entire car! When I saw what they had done, they actually had to put stuff back. I couldn't believe it!
I was so thankful they laughed at me.
All I could offer them was my heart-felt, giddy gratitude and juice boxes. They were happy for the thanks and passed on the juice boxes.
Welcome to the south. So much more polite than the southwest. Seriously. It just is the way it is. Not that one is better than the other...well...I happen to think manners matter and make for a better community living experience but I also realize it isn't for everyone.
I believe manners don't exist in the southwest the way they exist in the east simply because every one in the southwest has to pitch in to make it work; the formality of men holding doors open for women didn't much apply when firstly, there were no doors, and secondly, men were very far away looking for food in barren lands while the women dug the soil and kept the dust at bay. They had to open their own doors. And hey, there is nothing wrong with that. Clearly I can open a door. But what is awesome here is that men and women offer to help each other, and they accept it. It's not just an old-fashioned, chauvinistic thing that some ERA-era women might believe. No, this is people helping each other because there is a generosity of spirit. And generosity of spirit comes when there is an abundance of spirit. And abundance of spirit comes when people are not so busy scraping together their own needs, digging for water, and living on a drop of rain.
Don't get me wrong; the people of Appalachia are working people. There is very little wealth here. The abundance is in the land. There is water. And where there is fertile land and water, there is food. And where there is food, there is general happiness...and the willingness to share.
I can't say no one shares in the southwest; it's not that at all. But my experience was so much one of invisibility. I still can not believe how many years I lived in a town where people for decades complain that there isn't enough...of anything. There becomes an elitism that is so arrogant it is frightening. Frightening because no one notices the sense of entitlement that comes from believing a place actually "chooses" you or kicks you out. No. A person can either handle life in a desert or can not.
Entitlement comes in all forms. I understand the pride that comes when a person has worked hard for their life but entitlement, elitism, no, I will never understand. And that is what I didn't like about the southwest, about Santa Fe: the arrogance that the community overall cultivates and brags about.
I am not bragging about life here in the Blue Ridge. I am, on the other hand, enjoying it. It is amazing to me that here in one country two very different life experiences can occur, and all along the same interstate, I-40.
That is the beauty. Diversity.
The southwest taught me about diversity. Funny, that I learned it there and not my years living in San Francisco. It was New Mexico that showed me my hidden prejudices and presumptions.
And now I am having a similar experience.
I remember first driving into Asheville October 2010. I was adamant about not living in another "hippy, mountain town". I joked and would sing the musical theme from the movie 'Deliverance'. I would say to my friends, "Do you hear it? Do you hear the banjo? I'm telling you, we are going to end up dead and barbecued, never to be seen again."
Well, I hear the banjos, and I see all kinds of people wearing all kinds of clothes, driving all kinds of cars, people with no cars, people with no teeth, and well, so far, what everyone has in common, again, so far, is manners. Manners. Manners go a long way...and in hard times, they go even farther.
Welcome to the South. People are people, sure. There are rude people here and generous people in the southwest. Climate doesn't really define a people; but in a way, it does. After all, the U.S. government knew exactly what it was doing when it took the Apache indians from Arizona and New Mexico and sent them to Florida, and displaced the Seminole indians of Florida and the Cherokee of North Carolina and sent them west. It messed them up big time.
Well, I don't think that experience is unique to the Native Americans. Though I enjoyed those decades in the southwest, I have always known I come from 12 inches above sea level, that I am of the land that is barely land and mostly water. And though I am still several hours from my coastal heritage, I feel at home here where the earth is soaked with H20, and the people are soft and kind and generous...just like the land.
Manners matter. And with that being said, I sign off with a sincere thank you for reading and thinking about all that I have to say. There is so much for each of us to do...thank you for taking some of your time to read these words that I share.
Humbly and graciously.
While the rest of the country feels the pinch of recession, earthquakes, fires and hurricanes, nestled among the trees at a 3,000 ft plus altitude, the restaurants are teaming with people, the breweries are over-flowing, the wine bars are packed, the champagne bar has a line out the door, the chocolate houses have lines longer than the one champagne bar, the book stores are even packed this evening, and the several town squares have live music happening right now, this very minute, and they too are filled with people dancing, sitting, singing, talking, sleeping, eating, enjoying, and living life.
Pinch me because I know I am dreaming.
Walking up the street in evening attire and computer slung at my side, several people complimented me, men and women. Complimented me. I almost fell down. After living 20 of the past 25 years in Santa Fe, NM where compliments are rationed like food in a war-riddled country had me believing that I didn't know how to dress or better yet, simply was invisible.
Not here. Several times a day people tell me how happy I look, how well I am dressed, how pretty my necklace is, whatever...compliments. They are refreshing. And no, no one is hitting on me. These people are nice. I listen. I watch. And everyone is treating each other this way. Not just me. It is a generosity of spirit that reaches beyond clicks, cliches and pick-up lines.
Welcome to the South.
The other day at Target, I left the store with my cart piled high with things to help me better organize all the stuff in our 600 sq ft nest. Two large boxes holding large metal shelves teetered on the bottom of the cart.
As I loaded one bag after another, a gentleman approached and offered to help. I told him no, that I would be fine...certain he was...um...I don't know...lying? Anyway, thank god he insisted. Wedding band on his hand, he lifted the two large boxes into the back of my car.
"Thank you," I said. "Really. That was very kind and helpful."
"You are welcome," he replied. Simply. Politely, and walked back to his car.
No agenda. No attitude. And he didn't even ask for money.
I was stunned. In the decades I lived in the southwest, I can not tell you how many times I struggled with bags and boxes three-times my size in parking lots, in stores, and never had anyone offer to help. Even while holding my infant son, men and women walk past, opening doors for themselves and allowing them to shut in my face. After having a child, I see how this continues to happen, and have made it a point to extend a hand to moms and dads whose only arms are occupied with carrying children or diaper bags.
That same day when I got home from Target, city sewer workers sat outside my house on a 5-minute break from fixing a sewer line next door. I opened up the back hatch, and began unloading bags. Wilson had one and I had one. As we turned to go to the door, a voice called, "Would you like some help?"
This time I learned: this is the south. These men are serious.
"Yes, that would be very helpful. Just these two boxes would be fine."
All six men came over and unloaded my entire car! When I saw what they had done, they actually had to put stuff back. I couldn't believe it!
I was so thankful they laughed at me.
All I could offer them was my heart-felt, giddy gratitude and juice boxes. They were happy for the thanks and passed on the juice boxes.
Welcome to the south. So much more polite than the southwest. Seriously. It just is the way it is. Not that one is better than the other...well...I happen to think manners matter and make for a better community living experience but I also realize it isn't for everyone.
I believe manners don't exist in the southwest the way they exist in the east simply because every one in the southwest has to pitch in to make it work; the formality of men holding doors open for women didn't much apply when firstly, there were no doors, and secondly, men were very far away looking for food in barren lands while the women dug the soil and kept the dust at bay. They had to open their own doors. And hey, there is nothing wrong with that. Clearly I can open a door. But what is awesome here is that men and women offer to help each other, and they accept it. It's not just an old-fashioned, chauvinistic thing that some ERA-era women might believe. No, this is people helping each other because there is a generosity of spirit. And generosity of spirit comes when there is an abundance of spirit. And abundance of spirit comes when people are not so busy scraping together their own needs, digging for water, and living on a drop of rain.
Don't get me wrong; the people of Appalachia are working people. There is very little wealth here. The abundance is in the land. There is water. And where there is fertile land and water, there is food. And where there is food, there is general happiness...and the willingness to share.
I can't say no one shares in the southwest; it's not that at all. But my experience was so much one of invisibility. I still can not believe how many years I lived in a town where people for decades complain that there isn't enough...of anything. There becomes an elitism that is so arrogant it is frightening. Frightening because no one notices the sense of entitlement that comes from believing a place actually "chooses" you or kicks you out. No. A person can either handle life in a desert or can not.
Entitlement comes in all forms. I understand the pride that comes when a person has worked hard for their life but entitlement, elitism, no, I will never understand. And that is what I didn't like about the southwest, about Santa Fe: the arrogance that the community overall cultivates and brags about.
I am not bragging about life here in the Blue Ridge. I am, on the other hand, enjoying it. It is amazing to me that here in one country two very different life experiences can occur, and all along the same interstate, I-40.
That is the beauty. Diversity.
The southwest taught me about diversity. Funny, that I learned it there and not my years living in San Francisco. It was New Mexico that showed me my hidden prejudices and presumptions.
And now I am having a similar experience.
I remember first driving into Asheville October 2010. I was adamant about not living in another "hippy, mountain town". I joked and would sing the musical theme from the movie 'Deliverance'. I would say to my friends, "Do you hear it? Do you hear the banjo? I'm telling you, we are going to end up dead and barbecued, never to be seen again."
Well, I hear the banjos, and I see all kinds of people wearing all kinds of clothes, driving all kinds of cars, people with no cars, people with no teeth, and well, so far, what everyone has in common, again, so far, is manners. Manners. Manners go a long way...and in hard times, they go even farther.
Welcome to the South. People are people, sure. There are rude people here and generous people in the southwest. Climate doesn't really define a people; but in a way, it does. After all, the U.S. government knew exactly what it was doing when it took the Apache indians from Arizona and New Mexico and sent them to Florida, and displaced the Seminole indians of Florida and the Cherokee of North Carolina and sent them west. It messed them up big time.
Well, I don't think that experience is unique to the Native Americans. Though I enjoyed those decades in the southwest, I have always known I come from 12 inches above sea level, that I am of the land that is barely land and mostly water. And though I am still several hours from my coastal heritage, I feel at home here where the earth is soaked with H20, and the people are soft and kind and generous...just like the land.
Manners matter. And with that being said, I sign off with a sincere thank you for reading and thinking about all that I have to say. There is so much for each of us to do...thank you for taking some of your time to read these words that I share.
Humbly and graciously.
Thursday, August 25, 2011
To New Mexico with Love - Part IV
It is eerie to recall the past with such detail: to know that my imagination has held onto a single moment in time and has fleshed out the details with poetic license is, I don't know, eerie.
It is eerie to know that this Halloween will mark 25 years since that first Halloween-winter in Santa Fe.
Having just moved, I am particularly sensitive to the changing seasons. Seasonal changes have become my barometer of how I get to know a place. Already, the seasons shift. Leaves are falling from the trees: only a few but they are the foreshadow of the Fall to come.
Growing up on the shores of the Chesapeake Bay, winters weren't exactly always beautiful. But that winter of 1986, where the first snow fell October 31st and the last on my birthday in May, changed my experience of winter. I fell in love with it.
Fluffy white snow against stellar blue skies, winter was spectacular. People huddled in their homes burning fragrant woods that permeated the air. Breathe in: pinon. Exhale. Breathe in: cedar. Exhale. Breathe in: juniper. Exhale. Breathe in: repeat. Exhale.
Scent-ual.
******
As I try to write, I realize I am tired. I'm ready for winter. I wonder how I will fair an east coast winter. Granted, we are several hours from the coast. Nevertheless, I wonder.
I look out my back door at the wall of trees. My eyes look at the hardwood canopy and wonder how this will look when the leaves are gone: like a crazy line drawing or something. Black twigs and branches, trunks and stumps.
It's been a long haul to get here. I clocked 21,000 miles in three months worth of travel last year. Not much if you are a pilot or someone famous or someone who travels for business. But I'm none of the above. I was/am, however, a mom on a mission to find a good school for my son. I am now officially exhausted.
I am ready to hunker down. I feel like Rabbit in Winnie the Pooh, running around gathering provisions for winter even though it's at least 90 days away. Nevertheless, I feel it coming.
It's been a long time since I've had a winter. There have been few winters like the one I first tasted in 1986. Last winter I was traveling from west coast to east coast searching for that place to call home. And with the drought in New Mexico, well, it just never felt like "winter"...as I defined it...or as it was first defined for me by that first Halloween.
I am looking forward to a good hibernation. I am ready for it. I need it. I want it.
Winter is coming.
Thank God.
It is eerie to know that this Halloween will mark 25 years since that first Halloween-winter in Santa Fe.
Having just moved, I am particularly sensitive to the changing seasons. Seasonal changes have become my barometer of how I get to know a place. Already, the seasons shift. Leaves are falling from the trees: only a few but they are the foreshadow of the Fall to come.
Growing up on the shores of the Chesapeake Bay, winters weren't exactly always beautiful. But that winter of 1986, where the first snow fell October 31st and the last on my birthday in May, changed my experience of winter. I fell in love with it.
Fluffy white snow against stellar blue skies, winter was spectacular. People huddled in their homes burning fragrant woods that permeated the air. Breathe in: pinon. Exhale. Breathe in: cedar. Exhale. Breathe in: juniper. Exhale. Breathe in: repeat. Exhale.
Scent-ual.
******
As I try to write, I realize I am tired. I'm ready for winter. I wonder how I will fair an east coast winter. Granted, we are several hours from the coast. Nevertheless, I wonder.
I look out my back door at the wall of trees. My eyes look at the hardwood canopy and wonder how this will look when the leaves are gone: like a crazy line drawing or something. Black twigs and branches, trunks and stumps.
It's been a long haul to get here. I clocked 21,000 miles in three months worth of travel last year. Not much if you are a pilot or someone famous or someone who travels for business. But I'm none of the above. I was/am, however, a mom on a mission to find a good school for my son. I am now officially exhausted.
I am ready to hunker down. I feel like Rabbit in Winnie the Pooh, running around gathering provisions for winter even though it's at least 90 days away. Nevertheless, I feel it coming.
It's been a long time since I've had a winter. There have been few winters like the one I first tasted in 1986. Last winter I was traveling from west coast to east coast searching for that place to call home. And with the drought in New Mexico, well, it just never felt like "winter"...as I defined it...or as it was first defined for me by that first Halloween.
I am looking forward to a good hibernation. I am ready for it. I need it. I want it.
Winter is coming.
Thank God.
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
To New Mexico with Love - Part III
Dust.
Red.
Fine.
Red.
Present.
Here. There. Everywhere.
In the air, in the trees, on the window sills, in the doorway, on the plates, in the sink, in the bed, on my sheets, in my shoes, between my toes, in my eyes, in my hair, in my clothes, in my books, between the pages, between all spaces.
Dust.
Easily blown but never away.
I always thought my grand-mother would go crazy here.
She spent a good portion of her life rubbing furniture down with Pledge to rid it of dust. And it worked. Dust-be-gone and shine-like-new.
Not here. Not New Mexico.
All those years she and my mother and every other grown woman in my family groomed the girls to be perfect housekeepers with Pledge as our pledge. I often wonder what else I could have learned in place of dusting had I been born and raised in New Mexico....nothing more liberating I am sure but possibly more practical like skinning green chilies.
October 1986. Halloween. Winter came with a vengeance.
As we bustled around campus in holiday attire, the winter sky thickened. Old Man Winter exhaled a giant blast of snow into the lungs of Father Sky, and as his lungs expanded, His great chest pressed down upon the earth. At 7,000 feet above sea level, it is hard to ignore the sky.
Dressed in combat boots and a white cape coat, I ran from the lower dorms to the cafeteria where the evening's festivities were going on. The wind whirled. The air was crystalline cold.
Inside The Smiths moaned. The radiant heat of dancing bodies was a welcome warmth to the cold plunge of the night. I joined the dance but kept my eyes trained to the windows. The wind and the deepening darkness were giving new meaning to All Hallow's Eve.
I do not recall the precise moment when the dark turned gray and the gray turned white but I do remember the seconds it took for the black night to disappear. Two breaths and the entire building was whirling inside a tornado of snow. We were Dorothy again flying through space, head over heels, tumbling and singing, "I am the son and the heir...."
Nothing but snow particles.
Teeny tiny pointelistic realism...
Spin and fall.
Twirl and dive.
Dense and vast.
The mother of all snows
on All Hallow's Eve...
We danced among every single spirit that walked upon this earth from the beginning of time...each snow crystal a particle of spirit, unique, unlike any other. We danced in defiance of death knowing yet not believing for a single second we too will pass as does the snow: a shimmering crystal, perfect radiance, and brutally fragile.
Whirl on...shine on...crazy, crazy diamond.
Red.
Fine.
Red.
Present.
Here. There. Everywhere.
In the air, in the trees, on the window sills, in the doorway, on the plates, in the sink, in the bed, on my sheets, in my shoes, between my toes, in my eyes, in my hair, in my clothes, in my books, between the pages, between all spaces.
Dust.
Easily blown but never away.
I always thought my grand-mother would go crazy here.
She spent a good portion of her life rubbing furniture down with Pledge to rid it of dust. And it worked. Dust-be-gone and shine-like-new.
Not here. Not New Mexico.
All those years she and my mother and every other grown woman in my family groomed the girls to be perfect housekeepers with Pledge as our pledge. I often wonder what else I could have learned in place of dusting had I been born and raised in New Mexico....nothing more liberating I am sure but possibly more practical like skinning green chilies.
October 1986. Halloween. Winter came with a vengeance.
As we bustled around campus in holiday attire, the winter sky thickened. Old Man Winter exhaled a giant blast of snow into the lungs of Father Sky, and as his lungs expanded, His great chest pressed down upon the earth. At 7,000 feet above sea level, it is hard to ignore the sky.
Dressed in combat boots and a white cape coat, I ran from the lower dorms to the cafeteria where the evening's festivities were going on. The wind whirled. The air was crystalline cold.
Inside The Smiths moaned. The radiant heat of dancing bodies was a welcome warmth to the cold plunge of the night. I joined the dance but kept my eyes trained to the windows. The wind and the deepening darkness were giving new meaning to All Hallow's Eve.
I do not recall the precise moment when the dark turned gray and the gray turned white but I do remember the seconds it took for the black night to disappear. Two breaths and the entire building was whirling inside a tornado of snow. We were Dorothy again flying through space, head over heels, tumbling and singing, "I am the son and the heir...."
Nothing but snow particles.
Teeny tiny pointelistic realism...
Spin and fall.
Twirl and dive.
Dense and vast.
The mother of all snows
on All Hallow's Eve...
We danced among every single spirit that walked upon this earth from the beginning of time...each snow crystal a particle of spirit, unique, unlike any other. We danced in defiance of death knowing yet not believing for a single second we too will pass as does the snow: a shimmering crystal, perfect radiance, and brutally fragile.
Whirl on...shine on...crazy, crazy diamond.
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
To New Mexico with Love - Part II
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In elementary school, I learned that twenty-five years was considered a generation. Crazy to think an entire generation has passed since moving to and moving from New Mexico.
In New Mexico, I dare say a generation is more like 14 years...and, well, here in Appalachia, it just might be the same.
Yesterday, my son made a list of things he missed in New Mexico. His friends were at the top of the list but then came the land:
"I miss the small river that runs through my back yard."
"The arroyo?"
"Yes, the arroyo." Pause. "I miss my garden and the sky, the smell of rain and the ice cream with cookie dough in it."
"The ice cream with? Wait a minute, you mean the ice cream we had last week with Freddy?"
"Yea, that ice cream."
"That isn't from Santa Fe, silly."
"Oh yeah, I forgot. I still miss it."
Time for children is truly a loopty-loop within the minds eye threading in and out of the imagination like a memory of a dream.
So to is my memory of Santa Fe.
In the morning when I first woke in the Land of Enchantment, I tip-toed over bodies in slippery sleeping bags, and stepped outside. The morning light illuminated the silvery green leaves of a Russian Olive tree. The scent filled my lungs impressing upon my memory the permanent signature that only scent can.
The road the house was on was dirt, bumpy red dirt. The pine trees clustered tight around the house. The brilliant blue sky was simply that: brilliant. I exhaled relieved that I was not flung into a vast orbit high above the earth but clearly, I was in terra incongnita. Every cell in my quaker, seafaring ancestral body shivered with uncertainty; I had no idea how to be in a land composed of only one element: dust.
Those first weeks of college I wandered around Camino Cruz Blanca. With camera in hand, I photographed everything I saw: tall stands of wild sunflowers, thick bushes of blooming chamisa, flaming petals of Indian Paintbrush and tiny adobe homes tucked between and no higher than the ancient Pinons.
Each night, Orion's Belt rose above Atalaya. For the first time I saw his full context among the trillions of stars I had never seen before. For the first time I grasped the magnificence of seeing the very same stars the Greek philosophers gazed upon millenia ago.
As the nights grew cooler, the air filled with burning Pinon, cedar and juniper. I wept with the richness of the air. I had no idea scent could be so pure in a dry sauna. My heritage was 12 inches above sea level. At 12 inches above sea level, dry saunas were manufactured and for adults who belonged to gyms.
I remember one day in October watching the blue sky turn to blood red with the setting sun when I realized New Mexico was a land of simplicity. Only four colors made up the entire landscape: blue of the sky, red of the earth, white of the clouds and snow and green of the trees. I was hypnotized. Thus began my 25 year enchantment. Like Dorothy in the field of poppies, I laid back, laid down, and drifted for an entire generation...or two.
In elementary school, I learned that twenty-five years was considered a generation. Crazy to think an entire generation has passed since moving to and moving from New Mexico.
In New Mexico, I dare say a generation is more like 14 years...and, well, here in Appalachia, it just might be the same.
Yesterday, my son made a list of things he missed in New Mexico. His friends were at the top of the list but then came the land:
"I miss the small river that runs through my back yard."
"The arroyo?"
"Yes, the arroyo." Pause. "I miss my garden and the sky, the smell of rain and the ice cream with cookie dough in it."
"The ice cream with? Wait a minute, you mean the ice cream we had last week with Freddy?"
"Yea, that ice cream."
"That isn't from Santa Fe, silly."
"Oh yeah, I forgot. I still miss it."
Time for children is truly a loopty-loop within the minds eye threading in and out of the imagination like a memory of a dream.
So to is my memory of Santa Fe.
In the morning when I first woke in the Land of Enchantment, I tip-toed over bodies in slippery sleeping bags, and stepped outside. The morning light illuminated the silvery green leaves of a Russian Olive tree. The scent filled my lungs impressing upon my memory the permanent signature that only scent can.
The road the house was on was dirt, bumpy red dirt. The pine trees clustered tight around the house. The brilliant blue sky was simply that: brilliant. I exhaled relieved that I was not flung into a vast orbit high above the earth but clearly, I was in terra incongnita. Every cell in my quaker, seafaring ancestral body shivered with uncertainty; I had no idea how to be in a land composed of only one element: dust.
Those first weeks of college I wandered around Camino Cruz Blanca. With camera in hand, I photographed everything I saw: tall stands of wild sunflowers, thick bushes of blooming chamisa, flaming petals of Indian Paintbrush and tiny adobe homes tucked between and no higher than the ancient Pinons.
Each night, Orion's Belt rose above Atalaya. For the first time I saw his full context among the trillions of stars I had never seen before. For the first time I grasped the magnificence of seeing the very same stars the Greek philosophers gazed upon millenia ago.
As the nights grew cooler, the air filled with burning Pinon, cedar and juniper. I wept with the richness of the air. I had no idea scent could be so pure in a dry sauna. My heritage was 12 inches above sea level. At 12 inches above sea level, dry saunas were manufactured and for adults who belonged to gyms.
I remember one day in October watching the blue sky turn to blood red with the setting sun when I realized New Mexico was a land of simplicity. Only four colors made up the entire landscape: blue of the sky, red of the earth, white of the clouds and snow and green of the trees. I was hypnotized. Thus began my 25 year enchantment. Like Dorothy in the field of poppies, I laid back, laid down, and drifted for an entire generation...or two.
To New Mexico with Love
Twenty-five years ago to the day, I sat in the back of a packed van shuttling me and twelve other people from the tiny Albuquerque airport to Santa Fe.
The night was blacker than any night I had ever seen; I could hardly differentiate between the land and sky.
As we descended from the crest of La Bajada, someone pointed to a tiny cluster of lights that spread only an inch's width between my index finger and thumb. "There it is, there's Santa Fe."
I panicked. I looked all around looking for more lights. I searched for a larger city that for me would serve as an anchor to what appeared to be a satellite lost in space.
"THAT is Santa Fe," I asked.
"Yes," said the driver.
His affirmation only confirmed in me the fact that I was officially lost, never to be found again. Never mind that I was to start St. John's College as a Freshman and that someone on campus was awaiting my arrival. I was certain it was all a ruse. I was convinced there was no St. John's College because there was no land for a college to be built upon and that in a few short minutes the road was going to drop out beneath us setting our van to drift among the stars in the sea of blackness.
Needless to say the road did not drop out beneath us. We pulled into a parking lot of a hotel made of fake mud. Within moments, a dusty black London-style taxi arrived. Six Johnny-s bundled into the cab; I sat in the fold-down rumble seat. I knew one other person among us, my boyfriend. The rest certainly looked like the Johnny-s I knew from Annapolis; perhaps I was going to school after all.
*****
Four weeks have passed since I moved from New Mexico: a moment in my life I was certain would never happen, a moment I set into motion exactly nine years ago, a moment that is now a past occurrence, a moment that seems so unbelievable I have to pull over every time I see the hazy ridges of the Blue Ridge Mountains.
From the craggy red rock of the Sangre de Cristos to the velvet canopy of the Blue Ridge Mountains. Red to blue...old blood to new blood...dry blood to fresh blood...mix red and blue, and the passion of purple explodes, pours, erupts like two lovers intertwined, guided by pheromones and instinct....
The soil here sticks to everything: feet, fingers, face and hair. The soil there blows away leaving only traces of itself everywhere.
Here is the flip-side of there; we are one coin...I am far away and yet not away at all. I see and feel exactly how the blue of these ridges flow and form the red of those. There is no us and them though there are those who live comfortable amidst the bristle and brawn of high desert life; I find I enjoy the softness of earth and flora infused with water.
But I am not away; I am not gone from the land of Christ's blood...if anything, I am more deeply in it here in Appalachia. After all, these people are the heart of the bible belt. "Do you have a church?" is synonomous with "How are you today?" I gotta say, I am much more comfortable with "Que Viva?" but hey, it's water that gives life, not words...and so, I'll take this land over that land, but those words over these ....
The night was blacker than any night I had ever seen; I could hardly differentiate between the land and sky.
As we descended from the crest of La Bajada, someone pointed to a tiny cluster of lights that spread only an inch's width between my index finger and thumb. "There it is, there's Santa Fe."
I panicked. I looked all around looking for more lights. I searched for a larger city that for me would serve as an anchor to what appeared to be a satellite lost in space.
"THAT is Santa Fe," I asked.
"Yes," said the driver.
His affirmation only confirmed in me the fact that I was officially lost, never to be found again. Never mind that I was to start St. John's College as a Freshman and that someone on campus was awaiting my arrival. I was certain it was all a ruse. I was convinced there was no St. John's College because there was no land for a college to be built upon and that in a few short minutes the road was going to drop out beneath us setting our van to drift among the stars in the sea of blackness.
Needless to say the road did not drop out beneath us. We pulled into a parking lot of a hotel made of fake mud. Within moments, a dusty black London-style taxi arrived. Six Johnny-s bundled into the cab; I sat in the fold-down rumble seat. I knew one other person among us, my boyfriend. The rest certainly looked like the Johnny-s I knew from Annapolis; perhaps I was going to school after all.
*****
Four weeks have passed since I moved from New Mexico: a moment in my life I was certain would never happen, a moment I set into motion exactly nine years ago, a moment that is now a past occurrence, a moment that seems so unbelievable I have to pull over every time I see the hazy ridges of the Blue Ridge Mountains.
From the craggy red rock of the Sangre de Cristos to the velvet canopy of the Blue Ridge Mountains. Red to blue...old blood to new blood...dry blood to fresh blood...mix red and blue, and the passion of purple explodes, pours, erupts like two lovers intertwined, guided by pheromones and instinct....
The soil here sticks to everything: feet, fingers, face and hair. The soil there blows away leaving only traces of itself everywhere.
Here is the flip-side of there; we are one coin...I am far away and yet not away at all. I see and feel exactly how the blue of these ridges flow and form the red of those. There is no us and them though there are those who live comfortable amidst the bristle and brawn of high desert life; I find I enjoy the softness of earth and flora infused with water.
But I am not away; I am not gone from the land of Christ's blood...if anything, I am more deeply in it here in Appalachia. After all, these people are the heart of the bible belt. "Do you have a church?" is synonomous with "How are you today?" I gotta say, I am much more comfortable with "Que Viva?" but hey, it's water that gives life, not words...and so, I'll take this land over that land, but those words over these ....
Friday, August 19, 2011
Pocket book with a purpose
"She had what I almost had: a life with a purpose and pocket book to support it."
I like gathering snippets of conversations at restaurants or when walking down the street. Taken out of context, there is a lot of humor without having to tune into Comedy Central.
I like gathering snippets of conversations at restaurants or when walking down the street. Taken out of context, there is a lot of humor without having to tune into Comedy Central.
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